In life, there will be a great number of times when you’ll be faced with the challenge of “getting over it”. Like in case of a bad breakup, the loss of someone close to you, or just about any day to day tragedy that might linger in your head for longer than it probably should.
Some say the best way to get over something is to ignore it till it goes away. The truth, however, is the longer you ignore it, the longer it stays. Acknowledge it, accept it, embrace it, so it can’t hurt you anymore. I personally have spent too much time just going over ‘what if’. But really, it doesn’t matter what if, or what could have been. What happened is what your life is, and to be honest, no you cannot go back in time and change it. It is impossible, because if it were possible, the rules of nature would no longer apply and the universe would be in chaos.
So, every time you feel like its impossible to move forward, just tell yourself that innumerable people have overcome what bothers you now, that’s the key to inspiration. Give yourself time, give the situation some time, and always remember there is no way around. That to move ahead, you must will yourself to do so, and that’s about it.
Let go of what holds you down, let go of the disappointments and the negativity. Find the silver linings. Your life may be haywire right now, but it gets better.
It’s always darkest before the dawn. – Florence + The Machine
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